The methods and tools used to cross stitch are varied. What works for one stitcher, may not work for another one.
Stabbing method - Used mostly by beginning stitchers, the stabbing method is done by stabbing the needle into the front of the fabric and then pulling it through the other side, working in a row of half-stitches (/////), and then back (\\\\\\) to complete your Xs. If you choose this method, it’s best to use a hoop or frame. Also, the stabbing method is a good choice when working vertical rows of stitchers.
Sewing method - The sewing method is simply making each completed X at a time. It’s a better choice if your colors are scattered. If you prefer to not to use a hoop or any other devise that secures your fabric, then the sewing method works well. However, if you’re a new stitcher, then it’s best not to use this way to stitch as the fabric can be distorted by the shifting movement of your hands. An advantage is that you’re able to stitch at a somewhat faster rate than the stabbing method.
Regardless of which method you choose, remember to keep your Xs in the same direction. In other words, the top thread of the X should slant in the same direction, whether it’s (/) or (\). Lay your stitches as flat as tin soldiers so they won’t look distorted.
That depends on what you’re stitching as well as what best suits you. There are several options including hoops, embroider stretcher frames, and Q-Snaps.
Embroidery Hoops - Hoops are recommended when doing most other forms of embroidery to maintain an even tension in your stitches. But, for stitching on Aida fabric, it’s not advisable because it can be hard to remove hoop marks. If you use a hoop, don’t keep the tension too tight, remembering to remove it before when you finish a stitching session. However, when working with linen the marks come out easily when your fabric is stretched.
Stretching Frames - These come in a variety of lengths and widths. Buy stretcher bars about an inch (or smaller) than your fabric size, allowing you to attach fabric over the outer frames of the stretcher bars. When using stretcher frames, be sure to keep an even tension while stitching.
Q-Snaps - Preferred by most stitchers, Q-Snaps are plastic clamps that snap together around your fabric creating a frame for stitching. They come in a variety of sizes that you can mix and match. To secure extra fabric that can get in the way while stitcher, a hair clam works well.
Many stitchers prefer to stitch holding their fabric “in hand”, not to using any kind of hoop or stretcher frame. Most often, stitching in hand is preferred when stitching on linen.
Hold your fabric (with the right side on the inner side) to get to your stitching area. This protects the rolled edges from smudges while stitching.
Stitching in hand is a good method if you have good tension. However, if you notice your stitches are puckering the fabric, then perhaps some kind of frame, hoop, or scroll rods would be better. Also, if you see your stitchers are opening up “holes” at the corners, it’s better to use a stretcher frame or hoop.
Experiment with all of these tools and methods to find out what works best for you. After all, cross stitching is a hobby that’s meant to relax you, so you need to be as comfortable as possible.